In this episode, I connected with Paula Torraco, founder of To Be Honest, whose journey from performing perfection to trusting what she knows deep inside became a process of remembering who she is beneath achievement and expectation.
Growing up in Argentina, Paula learned early to give the expected answer and excel at everything. In 2013, returning from Europe to find her apartment emptied by a robbery became a wake-up call.ย
Starting again in the Netherlands without her possessions, professional identity or familiar surroundings confronted her with a deeper question:ย
โพ ๐๐ต๐ผ ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ ๐๐ถ๐๐ต๐ผ๐๐ ๐ฎ๐น๐น ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด๐?ย
Deep dive talking points:
๐๐พ Performing perfection: how achievement gradually disconnected Paula from herself;
๐๐พ Starting again: why losing almost everything shattered an identity built around accomplishment;
๐๐พ Reconnecting with inner authority: learning to listen to her body and act on what she knows;
๐๐พ Choosing the unknown: leaving corporate security without knowing what came next;
๐๐พ Possibility through curiosity: questioning what no longer fits!
Nuggets of empowerment:
๐๐พ Awareness creates the space to choose differently;
๐๐พ We don't always need to know what's next but we do need to pay attention;
Paula's empowering words:ย
๐๐พ โMy life changed when I started exploring and getting curious about what I didn't know.โ ๐๐พย
What changes when we stop giving the expected answer and start listening to our own?
Connect with Paula:ย
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulatorraco/ย
Website: https://www.paulatorraco.com/tobehonestย
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